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Befriend Your Fear

A Hilarious Guide to Achieving Your Dreams!

Hey there, fellow dreamers! I don’t know about you, but I am tired of fear holding me back from reaching my goals.

If you feel the same, fear not (pun intended), because today I am going to talk about how you can befriend your fear and turn it into an ally on your journey to success.

If you are on board, let’s go on a fun ride as we explore the wisdom of some of the self-development pioneers who paved the way for us!

1. Embrace Fear and Give It a Name

Imagine your fear as an unusual little cartoonish creature with its own personality.

The more ridiculous you make it the better.

Let’s call it Fuzzy the Fear Puppet!

Whenever Fuzzy shows up, greet it like an old friend and say, “Hey there, Fuzzy! Ready for another adventure?”

Giving your fear a silly name minimizes it and make it easier for you to confront it.

2. Take Small Steps and Laugh It Off

As the great psychologist Albert Bandura once said, “Success is the outcome of repeated failures, coupled with the ability to laugh at them.”

Start by breaking the goal or dream you are trying to achieve into small, easy, and achievable steps.

Take and focus on one step at a time.

That will push you slightly out of your comfort zone and help you make progress towards your dream.

If Fuzzy starts to make you nervous, laugh it off!

Remember, it’s all part of the journey, and you’re allowed to fall and make a few funny faces along the way.

3. Use Positive Self-Talk and Encouragement

Louise Hay, the queen of positive affirmations, once said, “You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.

Whenever you feel fear creeping in, talk to yourself like you would to a friend.

Encourage yourself and Fuzzy (your fear) and say, “We’ve got this, Fuzzy! We’re going to rock this challenge!”

4. Surround Yourself with Supportive People

The great motivational speaker Jim Rohn famously said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.

Choose who you surround yourself with wisely, and make sure they’re positive, uplifting individuals who believe in you and your dreams.

Their continuous support will make you see great possibilities for yourself and make facing your fears much more manageable and enjoyable.

5. Celebrate Your Victories, Big and Small

No matter how small or big your accomplishments are, celebrate them!

Remember, the goal is the journey, and every step forward is a victory worth celebrating.

Give yourself a pat on the back, treat yourself to something special, or even do a happy dance.

Acknowledging your achievements not only boosts your confidence but also helps you see fear as a steppingstone rather than an obstacle.

Congratulations, brave dreamers

You’ve made it through this journey of befriending your fear.


Thank you for the company and making it so far. Remember, fear doesn’t have to be your enemy.


Embrace it, laugh at it, and use it as fuel to push you towards your dreams.


With Fuzzy by your side and the support of your awesome friends, you’ll be unstoppable!


So go forth, befriend your fear, and conquer the world, one giggle at a time!

References: 

  • Bandura, A. (1997). Self-efficacy: The exercise of control. W.H. Freeman and Company.
  • Hay, L. (1984). You Can Heal Your Life. Hay House Inc.
  • Rohn, J. (1991). The Five Major Pieces to the Life Puzzle. Jim Rohn International.

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